I’m exhausted. I woke up feeling okay but then I checked the election results. I had to go to bed at 11:00 last night and the final result on issue 1 hadn’t been figured. When I went to bed No was winning by a few percentage points.

After finding out that my newly adopted home state joined the ranks of those denying fellow citizens basic rights all I wanted to do was go back to bed. But no, I had to go to work and be around people that I know voted Yes on 1. There are two things I refuse to discuss at work – Politics and Religion. Not everyone feels the same and I know several of my co-workers’ stance on both. It’s interesting that those who have no problems spouting off their politics are those with which I disagree.

I’m just so tired of people trying to control other people’s lives. I’ve been fighting against this tyrannical behavior since I was in college and it only seems to have gotten worse. Having a complete moron in the White House for eight years (Bush Jr. in case you don’t know to whom I’m referring) has emboldened the ignorant and fearful and they have no problem using that fear as a tool in their ongoing war with anything that doesn’t fit into their own personal world view.

I’m just so tired of it all.

Land of the free? – bullshit.

Home of the Brave? – double-bullshit.

Where ever you live, remember to vote. If you live in Maine, remember…

This past year, Maine passed a law allowing homosexuals to marry (each other.) So, of course, there’s a measure on this November’s ballot asking whether or not we, as Mainers, want to keep this law on the books.

Once again, U.S. citizens are being given the power to take away another U.S. citizen’s rights. Not Deny – TAKE AWAY a right they already have – a right that all non-gays have enjoyed since before the beginning of this country. It’s enough to make me sick.

I used to be a Christian. I went to church, attended my college’s Church of Christ student center. I met some wonderful people there, read and studied the Bible and tried to be the best Christian I knew how.

While I was in the Church I no doubt frustrated many of my fellow church goers. I never understood why we, as Christians, had to stick our noses into the business of the general public. I always saw this meddling as attempts at Mass conversion which is a futile gesture. Conversion should be a personal journey and should never be mandated by law.

Therefore, babysitting the country at large isn’t only futile, it’s simply stupid. Forcing your own particular beliefs on someone who is unwilling to listen is not going to convert them – it’s only going to breed resentment and make witnessing even more difficult.

There was a time when I thought homosexuality was a sin. My best friend was gay and I worried for his soul until it almost drove me nuts. But never, not once, did I want to deny him any legal rights. My concern for him was a personal one. I didn’t want anyone to be gay but I felt it wasn’t my place to tell anyone outside of the Church what they should do. If that person wanted to be a Christian then and only then would I say anything to them about their lifestyle – that was the only time I felt I really had any right to do so.

The church I was attending desperately wanted to legislate from the pulpit. The elders encouraged us to witness with our vote – to try to force our morals on others with legislation. This was one of the things that drove me from the Church. (I stopped attending church well before I ‘lost’ my faith.)

I love and respect the principles on which the U.S. Constitution and Bill of Rights were based and knew that to worship as I wanted, those principles had to be upheld. It was very painful to me that so many of my brothers and sisters in Christ refused to understand this. One of my friends had the audacity to tell me that the first amendment said ‘Freedom OF Religion’ no ‘Freedom FROM Religion.’ The fact that he couldn’t – or wouldn’t – grasp that ‘Freedom of Religion’ meant both was astounding to me.

Without the freedom that the Constitution grants us there would be no way for a church to truly grow. Nothing as transcendent as religion can be forced upon a person and be truly respected.

Separation of Church and State is not an evil thing – it protects everyone, including the churches. If you can’t see that then maybe it’s time to realize there’s a world out there past your church building’s fellowship hall. What if your beliefs aren’t the ones chosen to mix into the state? I doubt my Church of Christ friends would appreciate being told that their children would have to start every school day with a catholic prayer.

Living in the United States is truly a gift; one I know that many believe is from God. But living here means you have to acknowledge and deal with the fact that there are people in this country that do not agree with you and never will. These people have just as much right to live the life they want as any other group that doesn’t constitute a physical threat.

I suppose many Christians would argue that if gays are allowed to marry that THEIR rights would be violated, but that is something I have never understood. Who does or does not marry has no effect on your relationships. If it does then there’s something wrong with you, not a pair of strangers who happened to fall in love.

And that’s why I’m voting to make sure that those different from me have the same rights that I do – and that I would vote this way even if I were still attending church. This is a free country and everyone should have the same rights as others despite differing opinions, mindsets and even intelligence.

For those of you planning to vote Yes on 1 or on any issue that’s even remotely related because you feel something ‘just isn’t right’ maybe you should stop and consider that there might be something that you do that others feel ‘just isn’t right.’ Life may not be innately fair but it’s our duty as Americans to try to make it as fair as it possibly can be for everyone.

I can’t believe how long it’s been since I posted. I’ve been kind of tired lately and I also started a new blog (which I haven’t been updating as much as I would like) and this blog has kind of suffered.

Basically, I’m struggling to keep it together until vacation, which is two weeks away. We’re planning to take a trip to Missouri and Arkansas but I’m worried about the car. It’s almost 10 years old and it has been making some funny noises. Not terrible and it passed inspection and run fines, I just get paranoid.

We took a trip over to Camden State Park today to do some leaf peeping. It was pretty. It was the first time in the last three years I’ve been there when it was sunny. Here, take a look. (click to make it bigger)

I haven’t been posting much lately. I don’t have any real reason why not. I haven’t been overly busy but I just haven’t felt much like writing at all.

It’s been a pretty standard summer. Garden did okay – bad pumpkin crop, but at least I got some. We tried to camp again and did get one good night but it started raining the next morning and we went home. Damn those hurricanes. Even in Maine they won’t leave us alone.

Working from home today.

(At least until the B-I-L shows up with the snowplow)

I haven’t posted in a while. For the past month I haven’t been feeling very well. It’s something that happens every summer that my doctor hasn’t figured out yet. Unfortunately, it really tires me out. This year, it’s causing short-term memory problems too. Kind of forgot I had a blog, lol.

Over Labor Day weekend we went to Acadia National Park. Take my advice. Don’t go on a holiday weekend. While it probably wasn’t as busy as it is during the peak of the summer months, it was way too busy for my tastes. Everything I wanted to see, so did everyone else. No place to park. We went to the part of the island that was less populated, but there were still too many for me. I hope we can go back later in the fall so I can enjoy it because it was very pretty.

I’ll have pictures later.

This summer has been pretty good, weather-wise. We haven’t had any really hot days, and only a few sticky days. This past week we had quite a bit of rain which made my garden explode. I once again did not plan the pumpkins very well and they have already overtaken the cucumbers and are halfway through the strawberries. I just hope they don’t make it to the watermelons because the melons are doing so much better this year.

On with the pictures.

After the rain last week, we had some beautiful puffy clouds roll through.

One of my favorite new plants is my Astilbe. It flowered in the past few weeks and butterflies love it.

That’s all for tonight, kiddies. My computer is moving way too slow and it’s time for bed. Hope you enjoyed the pics!

My book is here. I will be pretty much unavailable until Monday.

Turns out there was one of those Diagon Alley parties in Portland, Maine last night. I didn’t know about it. Oh, how you’ve failed me MuggleNet! (Just kidding )

I’ve been quiet for a while. For anyone reading this…sorry about that.

The past 6 months have been rather rough. Around Thanksgiving we found out that Chris had a growth on his right kidney. In December they realized it was a tumor and on New Year’s Eve we were told it was cancer.

Happy New Year!

So, at the beginning of February, Chris had his kidney removed. The surgery went very well and the doctor said that the cancer was localized to the kidney, had not spread and the surgery had removed it completely.

Phew!

But the hospital stay almost killed him. (Yes, I’m being a little dramatic, but not by all that much.) Pain killers have never had much effect on Chris so most of the hospital staff thought he was just being a pain in the ass. He can be – believe me – but that’s not what he was doing that week he was there. 8 out of 10 nurses were utter bitches and very unwilling to him him whatsoever. I ended up doing some of their work for them.

Once we finally got home, recovery time was still slow. They couldn’t do the surgery laproscopically, meaning he had a foot long cut on his side.

When that finally started to feel better, he developed sciatica. He could barely move for two weeks. He’s much better now, but he’s still not back to normal – whatever that is. It’s been so long I think we’ve both forgotten.

So, you can see why I haven’t had much time or inclination to blog. It’s been a very dreary winter and I think that is the biggest reason I’m so eager for Spring to get here. And of course, this is the year that winter is hanging on and on and on. It’s April 11 and we still have snow out there and more on it’s way tomorrow.

And no – this is not proof that Global Warming is a myth. The term ‘Global Warming’ is the wrong term for what’s going on and I think everyone knows that by now – anyone with half a brain, anyway. The better term is ‘climate change.’ It took forever for winter to get to Maine – now it’s just taking its sweet time getting the hell out.